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Love means giving them full range of motion, and space to exist in their lives. It means accepting<\/em> that what we have will <\/em>one day fade away\u200a\u2014\u200adue to death or change. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It means recognizing them as other people not responsible for our emotions\u200a\u2014\u200aor emotional wellbeing. It means managing our own lived experience just as much as we allow them theirs. It is allowing them space to make mistakes, to be imperfect (forever<\/em>), to have space to live their own lives that are separate from ours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To love them\u200a\u2014\u200afully\u200a\u2014\u200ais to appreciate them each day. Give them our care and compassion and attention. It means seeking to understand their viewpoint, empathizing with their struggles, celebrating their wins, and supporting their journey. It means listening, touching gently, and treating their experience with the same kindness as our own. It means caring without crushing or clinging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Love sincerely<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You will get back exactly what you give\u200a\u2014\u200aand what you expect, and demand. You set the standards for how you want to be treated based on how you view and treat yourself, and then how you view and treat others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Understands that this goes both ways<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable. \u2013 C.S. Lewis<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.<\/p>Victor Hugo<\/strong><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. This is from Howard Washington Thurman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Have fun, enjoy all the moments<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You will get back exactly what you give\u200a\u2014\u200aand what you expect, and demand. You set the standards for how you want to be treated based on how you view and treat yourself, and then how you view and treat others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be crazy, do not get bored together<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Surprise your partner every day with bold and fun ideas. Keep the flame alive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n